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the experience of li xiaoyi's friend may confirm the authenticity of this concept. a friend who has been managing a women's prison for 20 years talked about the reasons for female crime and suicide. she found that the age of female crime is concentrated between 35 and 45 years old. this is because of the depression caused by emotional problems. when they are young, they have many options, but in middle age, they are under emotional repression. this is the only fulcrum in life, which eventually leads to a breakdown of reason.

this seemingly "simple" logic actually reflects the complex emotional world of human beings. love, family and career have become the center of many people's lives, but over-reliance on these things will bring huge risks.

this is especially true of xiao wang's story. this 21-year-old gaming genius went to chongqing alone for his girlfriend, pinning his life, career, and emotions on one person. this "single-choice question"-like thinking led him to fall into despair and helplessness when faced with challenges such as failed love, accidents to his children, or job loss, and ultimately led to a tragic ending.

psychologists have also pointed out that the root cause of many human tragedies lies in over-reliance on a relationship. this is not just pure love, but also a reliance on "security", and once this reliance disappears, it may lead to the collapse of life. it's like a person walking on a single road. if there is a problem with this road, he will face life-threatening danger.

however, life is not just a single-choice question, but a multiple-choice question. the meaning of everyone's life should be greater than the meaning brought by love. true happiness lies in discovering your own value and constantly exploring and growing in different fields.

this requires us to learn to think independently and enrich our lives in various ways. learning, hobbies, socializing, these seemingly "useless" things are actually the pillars of life, allowing us to get support and help on the road of life. just like tiny threads, intertwined together, they will form a solid net, providing us with shelter and strength.

however, in real life, desire is an irresistible force that makes people make some unpredictable decisions. extramarital affairs may also become a challenge in life to some extent. therefore, we need to learn to keep the precepts and continue to explore new possibilities.